Dedication of UofL Hospital nurse forges strong friendship Gretta Walters 鈥榯ruly the mom when mom can鈥檛 be there鈥

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    UofL Hospital nurse Gretta Walters was nominated for a DAISY Award for exceptional nurses from The DAISY Foundation by a former patient. Tabby Cooper鈥檚 son was born premature via an emergency Cesarean section, and mother and baby were in the hospital for months. During her time there, Tabby and Gretta formed a bond, and years later, the two have remained friends, with Tabby鈥檚 daughters serving as flower girls in Gretta鈥檚 upcoming wedding. Gretta is shown here with her award.

    Gretta Walters is 鈥渢ruly the mom when mom can鈥檛 be there.鈥

    A nurse at , she cares for infants in the neonatal intensive care unit of the . And she can say something a lot of people can鈥檛 say 鈥 she never dreads going to work.

    聽鈥淚 get to care for babies,鈥 she said. 鈥淎nd I love UofL Hospital, it鈥檚 a warm, caring place to work.鈥

    Four years ago, Gretta鈥檚 love for what she does changed the life of one of her patients, and her own. Tabby Cooper鈥檚 son was born at 26 weeks via an emergency Cesarean section. Gretta was there, doing her job, wrapping Sulli Cooper鈥檚 tiny body and placing him in an incubator, where he would live the first two months of his life.

    Twenty-three weeks鈥 gestation is considered the age at which a baby is viable. Little Sulli beat that by three weeks, and he had a long road ahead of him. A few hours after he was stabilized, Gretta came to talk with Tabby.

    鈥淪he gave me two pictures of my baby boy and told me everything about him,鈥 Tabby said. 鈥淎nd she warned me of the roller coaster ride I was about to endure.鈥

    But she would not have to ride that roller coaster alone. Gretta was there, every step of the way.

    鈥淭he first few days were agonizing, when I looked at this tiny baby and I wasn鈥檛 able to help him,鈥 Tabby said. 鈥淚 was so afraid to put my hands in the box. He was so fragile. One day, Gretta asked if I鈥檇 held him. When I said no, she said 鈥榃e鈥檒l change that.鈥 She had me place my hands inside his incubator and placed his tiny two-pound body in my hands. She asked if two pounds was heavier or lighter than I imagined. He was heavier than I thought.鈥

    Then one day, Sulli took a turn for the worse, and became very ill.

    鈥淕retta stood by my side, holding me as I cried, not knowing what the future held,鈥 Tabby said. 鈥淪he sat across from me in the dark as I sat at his bedside, because he was not going to be without his mommy while he was sick.鈥

    Gretta often brought Tabby magazines or books, trying to give her a break.

    Eventually, he recovered, and it was finally time for him to go home. 鈥淪he showed so much love to our tiny baby, and she also cared for me and my husband,鈥 Tabby said.

    But once Sulli left the hospital, that wasn鈥檛 the end of the family鈥檚 time with Gretta. The experience had forged a bond between the two, who became close friends, taking walks at the zoo or park, talking on holidays and sharing stories.

    鈥淲e do a lot of things with the kids, who I love seeing,鈥 Gretta said. 鈥淲e spent months together, almost every day and night. It made us close.鈥

    Three years later at UofL Hospital, Gretta was back at Tabby鈥檚 side again when Tabby鈥檚 triplet daughters came into the world 鈥 eight weeks early. 鈥淥nce again, Gretta reminded me of the crazy ride we were in for. And there she was, encouraging me and my husband, just like before,鈥 Tabby said.

    This May, Gretta will have her own special moment as she gets married. Her flower girls will be none other than Tabby鈥檚 daughters, who were born as Gretta and her fianc茅 had just met.

    鈥淲e talked through the night, and I told her about him,鈥 Gretta said.

    Tabby says she鈥檒l never be able to thank Gretta enough. She recently nominated her for a DAISY Award for exceptional nurses from The DAISY Foundation.

    鈥淪he showed my son, daughters and all the infants she cared for so much love and affection. She provided a tremendous amount of support to the patients, parents and their families. She is truly the mom when mom can鈥檛 be there. She is an extraordinary nurse.鈥

    Gretta, who is from Brandenburg, Ky., said she always knew she鈥檇 be a nurse or a veterinarian from the time she was 13 years old. She doesn鈥檛 have her own children, but caring for others comes naturally for her.

    鈥淚 love being a nurse,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a challenge, as you never know what you are going to get. And I love being a nurse at UofL Hospital.鈥

    She said the staff is like a second family, working as a team and spending long days and nights together, and supporting each other during rough times.

    鈥淚t鈥檚 like home,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 think our patients feel that.鈥

     

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